So that's what this text to my girlfriend is all about. She's in a new, live-in relationship which always requires a few "adjustments" (nice way of saying "what the f*ck am I doing?! Have I made a BIG mistake? I think I'm better at being single").
And well you see I was there too, only just over 2 years ago.
Here's the background:
I moved up to Thirroul from Melbourne because I'd found love! I could chat to my Melbourne girlfriends over the phone but pretty much I knew no-one up here. Started a new job, lived in a new house, with a new boyfriend. No girlfriends, no family (other than over the phone) so you could say I had to make a few "adjustments".
So when my girlfriend text me in distress I wrote her a text that I would have liked to have received from myself 2 years ago and so I thought I'd share it with you too x
my advice to my younger self helped xx
I wish we could write a text to our younger selves. Often I will sit in meditation and go back to a time that I needed support or advice and I whisper like an angel into my ear what I think I need. Or just give myself a hug. Whether or not it works on some quantum time-space level, who knows?! But it makes me feel better so that's all that counts. You should try it!
So yeah what about you? What advice would you give to your younger self about your relationship or relationships past? I'd love to hear about it in the comments below. No really I would LOVE to hear it!! It's like my favourite thing to talk about!!
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allow true love to arise
be "warts and all" YOU
stop doing stuff and start just being
sit back and allow answers to come to you
have more chai with your girlfriends
open your eyes to the bazillion blessings around you
and cry more